You can best measure your commitment to making a difference in the world as follows.  First, make sure you get counted along with others as you and they make sure a specific goal in social action is met.  And then when that goal is met, be sure to withdraw yourself from that counting list, because you know dang well that the activist group you momentarily aligned yourself to has no intention of standing up to be counted in furthering the pro-sex ideology the way you expected them to as return for your acquiescing to their demands that you had to be "involved" no matter what.  And also at that point your name being on that specific list won't matter anyway.  Be sure to have designs on them before they have designs on you, because that's the Hobson's Choice you'll be faced with.  This I say as the Mentor, also along with the Heir.